November 3, 2010

ABOUT SEX

Sex is a very important piece of a relationship. Without sex, you and your partner is no better than friends because you don't share that passion and intensity for one another. Sex keeps you closer and it keeps a very intimate bond and aspect alive and well in your relationship. Sex is important and it is important to enjoy yourself during sex as well.


Anyone who thinks sex is definitely important will probably end up being divorced. Sex is a very pleasureful experience and is a good thing to have in a relationship. But if you’re looking for something to last a lifetime, than basing sex as a very important factor in your relationship is not good. Very few keep the sexual pace up through their marriage. Everyone hits lulls and sex does drop off in frequency as the years go by. So sex is something that is to be enjoyed between each other but should not be something that is extremely important. Relationships that are based on sex as a high priority, rarely last.

You want to make your partner happy in bed and you want to give him amazing pleasure. You want to give your man the same satisfaction and pleasure that he is able to give to you. You want to learn how to lose control in bed and how to get lost in the moment because that is how you have amazing sex and that is what your relationship needs.

In order to make a man happy in bed, you need to bring it. You need to stop worrying about little things and start focusing on more important things. For example, he doesn't care if you have a little belly. He loves you for who you are. Don't fret about stupid things like that and allow them to impact your sex life in a negative way. If you can look past that and focus that energy on something positive like giving him great oral sex, then imagine what you can do for your man.

The more sexual confidence you have, the better sex will be. The more into it you are, the more into it your man will be. When you give him something to feed off of, then that turns him on even more. Sometimes, women don't bring that sexual energy and passion to sex and that makes it difficult for men to get women in the mood and to make love to them. If you want to make him happy in bed, then you need to learn how to turn yourself on so you can turn him on.

Of course, sexual positions also help to make a man happy in bed. No man can argue that it is quite a sight to have a beautiful woman on top of them, taking control and getting what she wants out of it. Don't be afraid to be the controlling one in the bedroom and to tell your man what you want to do to him. This will give you sexual confidence, and therefore, you will have better sex and you will give him pleasure that is out of this world.

Women love sex. In fact, some women think about it just as often, if not more, then their male counterparts. They fantasize constantly and at great length (with you being the object of their desire, of course). These hot little fantasies can cover a broad spectrum of kink, but almost always involve one of the five most common vaginal and anal sex positions women enjoy. This is due to a number of reasons, the most significant being that they create a perfect balance between level of difficulty and maximum pleasure. In other words, these sex positions women enjoy result in loads of pleasure for the minimal level of effort required to pull them off. That’s not to say that women don’t love your faves as well; they’re definitely into sexual acrobatics every now and then -- but when we’re getting down and dirty, certain sex positions tend to get women more wet than others.

Sex positions have been relatively standardized in position and slang -- the missionary position, doggy style, straddling and standing up are all very commonly practiced and talked about positions. This is primarily because they are four of the easiest to accomplish, with maximum pleasure. Any position you perform a sexual act in is a sex position, therefore you may feel free to invent your own any time you like -- names included.



Sex positions are of course very numerous and are based upon what the participants wish to engage in. Some are more romantic and intimate than others, like the missionary position where you and your partner can gaze into each others eyes lovingly. However something like doggy style (entry from behind, woman on hands and knees) can be a lot more furious and filthy due to the different angles and movement options.

SEX POSITIONS ON AM

There are some positions that make it easier to stimulate a woman’s clitoris while making love, and this can be done with fingers, a sex toy, or part of the man’s body such as the pubic hair and bone. Since many women find it difficult to orgasm with penetration alone, this is a worthy consideration to note. Ignoring this aspect of sex will probably end you up with less than you were hoping for. However, ensuring that in whatever sex position you choose that you are both happy and getting what you need from it, there exists no problem.

Experimentation creates variety, and variety is important for sexual and romantic relationships to blossom -- nobody wants the same boring stuff every time you have sex. Trying out new positions for all of your sexual activities, including oral sex, pays off not only with new experiences, but probably a few laughs as you both get into sometimes ridiculous positions and try to make it work. Using furniture and other apparatus around you to help is recommended sometimes. Bannister rails, beds, tables, chairs, stools, etc. all provide you with various ways



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